Last Wednesday on the Hill.
10:15 a.m.: The House Veterans’ Affairs Committee Hearing on
Homelessness has just begun, and already, the twenty-something staffer
sitting to my left is nodding off. She’s paid to be here, but you
can’t pay someone to care. Testimony at the hearing revealed that:
According to recent VA reports, approximately one-third of the adult
homeless population served in the Armed Services...Male and female
veterans continue to be over-represented in the general homeless
population. Specifically, male veterans were 1.4 times as likely to
be homeless as male non-veterans while female veterans were between
two and four times as likely to be homeless as their non-veteran
female counterparts.
The Chair of the Vietnam Veterans of America Women Veterans Committee
reported that at the Mary E. Walker House in Philadelphia, PA, which
provides transitional shelter for homeless women veterans, 63% of the
women veterans they see have suffered Military Sexual Trauma. This
corresponds with the findings of the recent Sanctuary Weekend™ for
Women Veterans, conducted in southern Oregon in April of this year,
where upwards of 60% of the participants disclosed MST. This figure
is double the VA statistics regarding the rate of MST in women veterans.
1:00-2:30 p.m.: I met with staffers at three Senate offices about
securing sponsorship for a National Military Family Leave Act modeled
after the Washington State act that went into effect in 2008, and H.R.
2744, the Military Family Leave bill that will become law later this
month in Oregon. This allows an immediate family member to take up to
14 days of unpaid time off during a period of a family member's
deployment.
The staffers’ main concern about introducing the legislation was that
it would place “too much of a burden” on businesses. Uhm, what about
the burden on the troops and their families?
“Play the Patriotism card,” I said.
Businesses aren’t concerned about patriotism – they say they support
the troops, but we all know that when nobody’s looking, most of them
couldn’t care less, and aren’t going to go out of their way to help,
was the gist of the response from every single office.
Then can we please stop pretending?
2:30-4:00 p.m.: There’s a long line of folks waiting to get seated
for the Senate Armed Services Subcommittee on Personnel hearing, but I
get escorted in and shown to a chair. My written testimony (click on
the link at www.sanctuaryvf.org ) is included in the record, but the
families of citizen soldiers still don’t have a seat at the table for
this and most other hearings/meetings/town halls, etc. on military
families.
If there’s an A-Team of active duty military spouses, the women at the
Senate hearing are on it. Officers’ wives have latitude not available
to their loved ones. Even so, I almost fell off my chair when Sheila
Casey, wife of General George Casey, who was in command of operations
in Iraq for almost the first three years of war said, “Army families
are sacrificing too much…we can no longer expect them to just make the
best of it.”
She talked about the intolerable pace of deployments, and said that
the only reason that the uptick in Army divorces wasn’t significantly
higher is because, “Our soldiers don’t have time to get divorced.”
Mrs. Casey also stated, “Military families are the most brittle part
of the force – everything is becoming an issue.”
Her concern, echoed by other panelists, is that the worst is yet to
come. In the meantime, military families are barely hanging on. Every
wife addressed the OP-TEMPO as unsustainable, drawing attention to the
lack of support for the mental health impacts of deployment on
military families.
The women testified about their Marine getting orders for the next
deployment on the very day he came home; children growing up without
fathers; fathers so emotionally disconnected that they would never
bond with their kids; military families falling apart.
They talked, and my heart broke for the hundreds of thousands of
military spouses who have been virtual widows for the past half a
decade and more; for the thousands of young military wives who are
embarking on journeys that will not have happy endings, and there’s no
good, goddam thing they can do about it. I ache for the lost years,
years we will never get back. The effects of this war will
reverberate through generations. And like the slumbering staffer, I
suspect that America will sleep through this, too.